Whether you are looking for one-night-stands, threesomes, an amazing girlfriend…or whatever, implementing what you’re about to learn will send you on the right path.
However, not doing what I’m about to tell you is one of the main sticking points preventing men from attracting women.
What you are about to learn is probably nothing you haven’t already heard. It, however, is one of the most overlooked skills – especially by guys learning how to attract and be more successful with women.
Before I tell you what this secret is, I am going to share a little story with you. When I first became serious about mastering, what I used to perceive as, the ego bruising “social minefields”, in order to succeed with the women I most wanted, I befriended many guys trying, as well, to get this area of their life handled.
Some of these guys considered themselves to be scared little men. Others thought of themselves as full blown Casanovas. And a few felt like Average Joes. Some were amazing at quickly getting women into bed; while a few, unfortunately, couldn’t, even if their life depended on it, talk to a woman.
All of us became very close and formed a squad with one goal in mind: to become more successful with women. I made a lot of good friends, and witnessed a few of them do some amazing things, ranging from making out with women in bars to sporadically having sex with a woman they had just met.
In spite of what looked to be great success, there was a dark, discouraging cloud hovering over us: none of us had any female friends. Some of the group had female friends, but got rid of them, with the idea that they would take away time from picking up women. A few had never had a female friend. When we went out we never were just hanging out. Our only goal was to create attraction in women. We did care one bit about interacting with women we felt weren’t attracted to us. When going into a bar, women could feel our hunter energy, a pack wolves waiting to attack. Even if one of us made out with a woman, the night would usually end with just us guys.
Now, before breaking down the reasons for making at least five female friends, I’m going to get crystal clear about what I mean by “making friends with women”.
If you’re someone who sits around with their female friends, giving each other hot pink manicures and pedicures, listening to their troubles with men, you’re in big trouble. Being friends with women is not about you playing the big passive bottom in their “bitter at men” gang bang. The only exception to this is if you are gay. My point: being friends with women is about treating them exactly how you treat your guy friends. Women know you are not their girlfriends. When you act like you are their girlfriend, they interpret it as an unconvincing pretense used to get into their pants.
To recap: being friends with women is about acting the way you would around your guy friends.
Here are 3 reasons for making friends with women.
Reason # 1: You Will Be More Relaxed Around Women In General:
Men who don’t have female friends are usually nervous and uncomfortable around women, causing women to feel uncomfortable around them. When a woman picks this sort of man up by the common scruff of his neck, and mercilessly tears him apart, like a cheaply wrought rag doll, he becomes anxious and uncomfortable in his own skin. This results in her becoming nervous and uncomfortable. In her book, this will take you straight to the top of the Creep-O-Meter.
Trying to make women feel comfortable around you when you are uncomfortable in your own skin is usually a losing battle – and often times leads to them feeling even more uncomfortable.
The biggest part of making women feel comfortable is being comfortable in your own skin and around women. The quickest road I know to becoming comfortable in your own skin and around women is to make female friends.
Reason # 2: You Will No Longer Need An Endless Supply Of Pick Up Lines And Memorized Material To Be Successful With Women:
I know some guys who are amazing at approaching women and initially getting women attracted to them but as soon as they run out of rehearsed material, things take a terrible turn for the worst as they collapse completely. One common scenario is that a guy will meet a woman and succeed in generating the emotion inside her of wanting, chasing, and reaching for more of him through using memorized material. She willingly gives him her number. When he calls she has jamais vu (jamais vu is the opposite of déjà vu: it is the illusion that you are encountering something you have already experienced for the first time). It is like she is talking to a total stranger and the emotion of her feeling attraction towards him is long gone. Since he doesn’t know what to do outside the realm of using memorized material, she treats him like a random telemarketer trying to solicit her, cutting the phone call unusually short and hanging up. The problem is that this guy neither understands women nor knows how to act around them. One of the best ways for developing these skills is by being friends with women – especially the type you strive to succeed with. After talking to a woman for a few minutes you’ll know exactly how to produce attraction with her, without having to use rehearsed material. I’m not against using memorized material – in fact, I’m a fan of it. But if you can only interact with women using memorized material, you are in big trouble.
Reason # 3: Women Know When A Man Is Not Frequently Around Other Women:
Women are psychic when comes to knowing whether or not a man is frequently around women. Women assume that if other females hang around you, then you must be a cool guy. They assume, likewise, that if no females hang around you, something might be wrong with you – bad thing! This is pretty much herd mentality – go figure!
One of the major problems with a lot of the material on how to attract women is that it only focuses on making you feel more confident about yourself. As, alas, you might know, you can do all the affirmations in the world, but if you don’t have the social skills to attract women, your out of luck.

What should you do instead?

First of all, your approach should seem natural. Like I said before, beautiful women are used to having guys approach them and they are usually naturally resistant if they think that all you are doing is trying to pick them up. You have to do something different.

When you approach her in a much more natural way, she will be far less likely to throw up any resistance at all. Unless of course, she is just naturally “bitchy” which may be a good sign to try another woman.

Seducing a woman and making her feel attracted to you is about getting her to feel comfortable and “unguarded.” When you are able to do this, it just seems like there is a connection there and that is what most women want to feel. Of course, you are “making” that connection happen, it just does not seem that way to her.

Forget the pick up lines and the cheesy high school style game. What you want to do is to understand how to create attraction as well as how women respond and what they respond to. This will help you achieve success with women and become a natural.

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So, how can we easily attract women to us? Let’s start with the most important thing to easily attract women.

1. be very bold and confident: This is the most important thing that we have to show. Women are attracted to men that are very confident and bold. Believe in yourself that you have what it takes to easily seduce any woman.

2. Be a good and interesting communicator: One of the best ways of attracting beautiful women is through conversation. A good communicator knows what to say and when to say it. If you are telling her a story, make it easy to understand. A good communicator speaks clearly. Avoid jumping back and front when you are having a conversation with a woman. Speaking too fast won’t help either. And finally be sure to make the story very interesting.

Now that we know confidence and to be a good communicator counts, its time to talk about another important tip that we can use to easily attract women to us like glue.

3. Humor: Humor is one of the greatest seduction tool used by the seduction community. It has been proven to work. By humor, making a woman laugh makes her attracted to you.

Ok these are tips that can easily attract women to you like glue. Practice these tips and you will see the way women will be so attracted to you.

How you approach a woman will be the first thing that will determine if the she will feel attracted to you. Your approach will vary with the looks and status of the woman you want to approach. A woman who rates as a 9 or 10 will need a completely different approach than a 5, 6, 7, or even an 8.  Women with good looks or high status get more attention and compliments in general with women not so attractive or the ones not sharing the same status.

Your approach will determine the kind of attention you get. When approaching more attractive women, treat them like their looks don’t matter at all. You need to make them feel that you don’t care about their looks.  Approach a lesser attractive woman and make her feel good about herself she will love you for getting that attention for she is not used to it.

Another idea would be to be accompanied by hot women. Having hot women by your side makes you a man of high value in the eyes of other women. It doesn’t matter if these women are just friends with you. After all, attractive women wouldn’t hang with or bother with you if you weren’t.

Go out with hot women and good looking, well groomed guys. Women will associate you with them and it brings your value up. You will be judged and associated with the people you associate yourself with. Hang with attractive women and attractive men and you will instantly improve your image in the eyes of other women.

Be a man! This doesn’t mean you have to burp, fart, or be rude. This means that you have to know what you are, what you stand for, and what direction you are going. This kind of confidence, and the ability to stick to it no matter who or what is going on, is extremely attractive to women.

Present yourself as the type of person who is traveling on an awesome adventure through life and that women can go along for the ride, but you don’t care and aren’t bothered if they decide to just sit on the sidelines and watch and completely miss out on you and what you have to offer.

These are just the first few steps to start your journey to attract women in your life. Work with them and expand on your education and attracting women will become as easy as attracting bees with honey.

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