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Here’s a simple question I want you to ask yourself:“Do I Want to Attract Hot Woman?”I’m not talking about your average girl at the bar who is okay looking.  I’m talking about the kind of woman who walks by and EVERY guy stops what he’s doing.  This is the type of girl that MOST men can only dream of dating.Almost every guy I’ve met wants to date a woman like this…Yet, most never have a chance!Why’s that?Well the answer is simple… Your average guy doesn’t even try!Typically, when a man sees a woman like this, he’ll have a brief fantasy about what it would be like to date her.  BUT, when it comes time to “man up” and approach, he makes an excuse about how he has no chance.Allow me to let you in on a little secret…99% of men make excuses when it comes time to approach a very attractive woman.  Typically, they SETTLE for the woman they think they can get.  Without even trying, these guys simply give up!On the other hand, there’s the 1% of men who aren’t afraid to take a chance.  Even if they don’t attract the interest of the girl, they STILL have the courage to try!So what’s my point?In order to attract a hot woman, you have to take a chance!To reword a famous quote by Wayne Gretsky, “The only time you have 0% chance of success is when you don’t take a shot!”Now if you find yourself tongue-tied and unable to approach the beautiful women you see, then you should get to the root of your mental stumbling block.  In fact, there is a two-step solution to this problem.First, you need to create a POWERFUL mindset when it comes to women.To get over this hump, you should create a list of affirmations that you review on a daily basis.  These are sayings that you recite which create a positive state of mind.  For instance, you could use affirmations that sound like this:•    “I’m a good looking guy”•    “I can successfully approach women”•    “I have a lot to say to women during a conversation”•    “I am a fun, energetic guy”With affirmations, you can REPROGRAM your mind to think in a positive manner that’ll make you more attractive and interesting to women.The second solution is a little more difficult.  You need to understand the RIGHT way to communicate.  The major problem that guys have around attractive women is they simply don’t know how to talk to them.Honestly, creating attraction with an uber-hot girl comes down to ONE thing: Knowing how to flirt.  If you can flirt, you speak to girls on a level that most guys fail to understand.  Flirting isn’t about asking questions.  And it’s not about seeking rapport.  In fact, flirting can be quickly created by avoiding statements that guys often use to establish a common interest.In essence, flirting is about creating sexual tension.  It’s that delicate balance between teasing a woman, while making her work for YOUR attention.  So if you want to attract (and date) a hot woman, the best way to make an impression is to NOT compliment her or do what other guys do.  Instead boldly approach her and find a way to create that sexual tension that’s necessary for all flirting conversations!  You’ll find that subtly teasing and bantering is one of the BEST ways to attract even the hottest girls around.

When it comes to dating advice for men on the internet, there is no question there is an awful lot of hype that gets pushed. Simple knowledge of human behavior will show that most of these so called tricks and routines to attract any woman that you want are just not possible. Why? Because not all human behavior is 100 percent predictable. And not every single woman will fall for the same routine. In fact, in most cases, trying out tricks and routines on a woman will actually decrease your success with women.

So, what is it that you should do instead?

The first thing to really understand is that you are not going to find out a method that will attract every single woman that you meet. You have to accept this, it’s just the way that it is. You also have to understand that while you cannot predict every single woman’s reaction. there are certain things that will trigger female attraction most of the time. These are the things that you want to focus on.

What should you do?

You have to be able to create rapport with a woman to go beyond the level of just someone that she has met. This is essential to your success. You also have to be able to do the little things that will trigger her attraction for YOU. These things will include: flirting with a woman, using sexual body language, and being able to use humor as a way to attract a woman.

If you can learn how to use these three things, your success with women will SHOOT through the ROOF!

Most guys never take the time to learn what really works to attract a woman’s attention and to make her find you irresistible. Now, I am not saying that you will be able to walk up to 10 women and attract every one of them. But, you will be able to experience success with women like NEVER before!

Guys, it’s a common thing to worry about. How do you get a woman to notice YOU? . I mean, how do you really get a woman to see you above all of the other guys that approach her to think about you and feel attracted towards you?

I see it all of the time. Guys approaching women in a way that guarantees that she will NOT feel any real attraction. If you feel confused about how you should be approaching women and getting them to notice you…relax, my friend.

The first thing that you have to realize is that half of the battle is in your own head. If you feel that you have nothing to offer that will make her see you over any other guy, that’s exactly the kind of thing you are going to project. Confidence in yourself is an absolute must if you want to attract women.

Another thing that you have to keep in mind is that the more attractive or hot a woman is, the more often she gets approached and most of the guys will do it in the same couple of ways. Either they will try to play the role of a smooth pick up artist but be totally transparent that they are anything but, or they will act like a sheepish little puppy dog that NEEDS her attention.

Either way, these things do nothing to make you stand out in her mind. And if you don’t stand out, you are not going to get the attention you deserve and she will probably not even give you a second thought.

You gotta have an approach and technique that shows you DON’T need her attention and that you are not like the other guys that have approached her and failed. To attract women, you have to get them to think about you and see you in a sexual way.

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To be successful with women, you have to know how to create attraction with a woman. If you are unable to make a woman attracted to you, then you are quickly going to be placed into the FRIENDS category in her mind and most men fail to EVER make it out of this zone.

Here are a few simple and easy ways to create attraction with women:

1. Let her know your interest from the beginning. You have to be able to establish that you are not trying to be just another one of her friends. You can do this without even saying a word. For example, a guy that tries to be a woman’s friend, will start to do favors for her from the beginning. Don’t do this.

2. Flirt with her. A lot of men will actually avoid flirting with a woman because they don’t want to face the possible rejection. It is much better to put yourself out there and start flirting with her, than to wonder why she just isn’t attracted to YOU. You have to do what works to create attraction and flirting is one of those things.

3. Touch her. Now, you don’t want to grope her or anything like that, but touching her is one of the ways to escalate attraction. Most men will avoid trying this again to save the possibility of rejection. Simply taking her hand and leading her to a table to go and talk can be an EASY way to escalate the attraction. Touching is an important part of escalating her attraction for YOU.

These three simple and easy ways are really just the beginning. You want to be able to flirt with a woman and create a strong attraction with her IF you want to be seen as more than just another guy friend.

It’s not a secret that most men do not end up with their dream girl. Instead of attracting a woman that will make them feel alive and fulfilled, they are lucky if they end up with a girl that is just above boring. And this is what men come to expect from dating. However, it does not have to be this way for YOU. You can be one of the “lucky” guys that lands a quality woman. To do this, you have to be able to attract a woman using techniques that WORK!

Here’s why most men NEVER get the kind of women they really desire:

Most men have an attitude of they will take what they can get when it comes to dating. Instead of setting a higher standard for themselves when it comes to the women they date, they just settle. The problem with this is that it leads to boredom REAL fast.

Why do most men do this?

They never learn what really works to create attraction with a woman. As a result, they believe that they have to be wealthy or full of muscles or have movie star looks to attract quality women. But, you can easily take a look around you and see that there are average guys that somehow seem to end up with high quality women. And they make it look EASY.

This can be YOU!

When you understand what it is that compels a woman to be attracted to a certain kind of guy, you can become that guy. And this does not mean that you have to throw away your old personality. You just have to learn what it is that triggers a woman’s affection and learn how to pull those triggers.