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You’re at your favorite hang out with the guys. All of you made the mad dash home after work, spruced up as quickly as you could, and met one another at the watering hole to catch the last part of Happy Hour. It’s a Friday night so the place is a bit more crowded and a bit noisier than usual. The evening progresses nicely, the jukebox is being fed plenty of dollars and good music is playing, and then WHAM!!! In walks the most beautiful woman you have ever laid eyes on in years. And you wonder where she has been all your life.
Well, for the last four hours or so, she was at home showering, then standing in front of her full length mirror making sure she was wearing the most magnetic dress she had in her closet, and then finally sitting down in front of her vanity mirror for an hour or so making up her face and styling her hair to look stunningly flawless. Here’s the rub. She was already drop-dead-gorgeous, so why on earth did she go through all this trouble?
Simply stated, to attract the right guy with as little competition as possible. She was increasing her odds by maximizing her strengths to attract the right man. And yes, I am totally serious. Millions of women go through this ritual every time they go out for an evening with the idea of finding a man as their priority.
Moving right along, we have come to that part in the discussion that will tell you why the above is such valuable information. Deep within everyone’s psychological core are the commonly joined principles of approval and attraction. The amount of approval a person feels is based solely on the amount of attention they receive. And most women have that little subconscious ‘They-like-me/they-don’t-like-me’ meter turned on when they enter a social setting.
But be careful Luke Skywalker. That disturbance in the force is coming from the Dark Side of this facet. Just like other emotions and feelings that trigger the brain’s potentially addictive chemicals, nothing can turn more addictive than the interaction that occurs between approval and attention. But the truly interesting thing about what happens to a woman when she becomes attracted to you, is that she loses the ability to control that attraction, and then the entire situation. She wasn’t even remotely thinking about you and then suddenly, it just jumped up and bit her right in the sitting-oriented part of her anatomy.
I can’t emphasize this enough, but if you are interacting with this beauty that spent all that time preparing for the evening, elaborating on her beauty and how overwhelmed you are with it is exactly what you want to avoid. Why? Because it will shift that control over to her, empowering her in the process, and she will saunter on to the next opportunity leaving you adrift in the wind like the leaf in the beginning and the end of the movie, Forrest Gump.
When she has lost the control by virtue of that attraction factor, she becomes the pursuer and you become the pursued. Once this has happened, and you don’t let your ego destroy what you set out to accomplish. Keep her interested, keep her entertained, but most of all give her what she wanted when she first walked in the place — approval and the confidence of knowing that she has found ‘the right guy’ to be with.

You’ve heard it before, and I’ll say it again. Nice guys finish last!
Why is this true? Basically, the reason is because they cater to women too much. There is no challenge. By doing too much and consistently paying attention to them, the women are basically bored to tears.
The problem is that nice guys cater too much to the needs of women. By consistently paying attention and doing too much for women, these guys provide women no challenge and no “chase.” And, regardless of what they say, women really do like a challenge even when they deny it.
Like I said, being too nice will not get you where you want to be with women. The good news is that there is a way to be nice to women yet simultaneous build the necessary attraction. Actually, this is a great way to be an interesting, fun person but without being too nice.
I call this technique the “Push-Pull.” Trust me, it works!
Here’s why…
Basically, the idea is to pull her in by do something nice then do something that will slightly push her away. It is effective because she never really knows if you are interested in her. As you probably know, it’s human nature to want what we can’t have.
Also, by consistently using the push-pull technique, you will begin to build a lot of attraction because she will have to work for your attention.
To reap the most benefits from the technique, start using it the very first time you meet a woman. If you want to attract women now, you must use it from the beginning. There is no getting around this fact.
For instance, apply the technique during your first conversation with her when you introduce yourself. Try giving her a compliment and then say something that slightly insulting. Now, there is a fine balance between complimenting and insulting so use that example cautiously.
What you need to remember with the push-pull technique is that smiling throughout tells her that you are joking. You will be very successful if you can subconsciously push her away by consistently teasing her while also pulling her in with compliments.
The key to this technique is that she continually wants your attention during those times when you “push her away.” With a little practice, you will eventually master the push-pull technique and become a natural. Why wait? Go out, start practicing and attract women now!

Do you know the ONE thing which is most attractive to women?
You’re completely wrong if you answered looks, youth or money, then!
The truth is women are always attracted to guys with unique and interesting personalities. In order to be successful with women, you have to know the right kind of characteristics to display to women.
In the next few minutes, you’ll learn the most important personality traits to display that will draw women to you. Let’s get started…
Personality Trait #1- Confidence
Whenever you’re talking to women, you have to show absolute confidence in yourself. No matter what happens or comes up, you should act like it doesn’t faze you. A confident guy can roll with the punches and handle himself in all situations.
Personality Trait #2- Mysterious
When you first meet women, you want to project a mysterious personality. What you want to do is meet women, and not be specific about your life. Instead of taking the time to talk about your background, learn to tell interesting stories about what you’ve done or things that have happened to you.
In other words, let your personality shine through. Not your background or social status.
Personality Trait #3- Desirable
I’m going to be honest here…
Women like guys who are pursued by other women. To trigger this reaction, you should flirt and meet with multiple women, instead of trying to attract a single one.
So next time you’re in public, try meeting and flirting with different women. Eventually you’ll find that there will be a few women who are competing for your attention.
Personality Trait #4- Center of attention
When you display this trait, you’ll become the guy who captivates the interest of every person you meet. In order to display this trait, you have to establish yourself as an authority with interesting things to say.
When you become the focal point of a room, you’ll be able to easily draw beautiful women to you.
Personality Trait #5- Fun to be around
An attractive guy is somebody who can bring fun and excitement to a conversation. If you can make women enjoy themselves when they’re around you, then it’ll be easy to attract them.
So instead of talking about serious stuff like work, school or your family, try to behave in a flirtatious manner and talk about fun things.
Personality Trait #6- Strength
Having a strong personality is one of the best ways attract women.
You can show this personality by always looking a woman in the eye and maintaining length eye contact. In addition, you should be a person who sets high standards and lives by them.
Personality Trait #7- Be challenging
One mistake other guys make is to be too aggressive with women.
Instead of doing this, you should try make her work for your attraction. For instance, you should do a few things leaves her wondering if you like her. The more she has to work for your affections, the more she’ll be into you.
In order to attract women, you must have a unique personality.
By cultivating the traits that I’ve described in this article, you’ll become the type of guy who can stand out from the crowd. All you have to do is practice demonstrating these traits, and you’ll dramatically increase your success with women.

Have you ever noticed that some guys can attract women with little effort? Women are simply drawn to them like a magnet. It likely has something to do with one fundamental seduction principle: your attitude. This is not a new concept since many dating advice articles emphasize the importance of a confident attitude.
Well, I am going to emphasize it again because it truly is crucial to attracting and seducing women. Guys with a confident attitude portray this attitude in all situations and when interacting with anyone they meet. Their attitude is evident even before they open their mouths.
To learn this skill and start attracting women, you must give yourself an “attitude makeover” and learn to have a confident attitude like the guys described above. I have described below a few seduction tips to help you be on your way to a more confident attitude and a greater ability to seduce women you meet.
First, you cannot disregard the principle of first impressions. Women start to judge you before they even start talking to you. This means you need to pay attention to your outer appearance and dress how you want to be perceived. If a confident attitude is your goal, as it should be, then you must dress confidently. How you dress should portray a seductive, confident personality. It’s that simple. A few slight changes to your wardrobe can do just that and make a significant difference in your seduction skills.
Basically, you need to get rid of your clothing that give the impression of a wuss or a dork. Aim for more fashionable clothing. Now, there is no need to toss your entire wardrobe to make these changes. Like I said, a few subtle changes may be all you need to more positively stand out and give the impression of confidence.
Secondly, let your body language speak for itself. Actually, it is going to speak for you regardless, but it is up to you to determine what women “hear.” Your body language can give off the impression of confidence before you even approach women. Or, it can give off the opposite effect which definitely isn’t going to help you better seduce women.
If your body language does not give off a confident vibe, the solution is to simply change it. A good way to learn the best body language to portray this attitude is to sit back for a while and study men with a confident, alpha male personality. You will soon see how they stand out in general and, more importantly, with women.
Now, once you have figured out why and what makes this body language work, go ahead and apply some of this body language. Imitate some of their mannerisms and create the confident, seductive attitude for yourself. With enough practice, it will gradually feel more natural.
Believe it or not, we are still to the point of conversation. The third important tip is to make your eyes and smile work to your benefit. Introduce women to your confident attitude by making eye contact and smiling confidently. It is important that you approach women with an attitude full of confidence. Making and maintaining eye contact is a sure sign of confidence when meeting anyone and is no different when you are trying to meet and seduce women. Let go of the wimpy approach and walk up to her like you know what you want and know you can get it!
Now, if you are not yet comfortable with this approach, spend some time practicing with different people you meet. The goal is for you to become comfortable with a confident attitude when interacting with people. Otherwise, women will see right through you and definitely not see the confidence you are trying to portray.
We have finally made it to the conversation! Your goal while conversing with a woman is to make the conversation as interesting and entertaining as possible. The conversation itself should project your confident attitude and not a shy, passive personality. The best way to accomplish this is to prepare several great stories beforehand so you are ready to go when you find yourself conversing with an attractive woman. The stories should be funny and give her a small taste of your personality and love for life.
Now, you do not want the conversation to turn into “story time” so be sure to work them into the conversation at the best times. You should also maneuver in a few provocative questions during the conversation. This is a good starting place to building some chemistry and attraction.
The truth is, if you want to attract women you simply must learn to portray a confident attitude. Go ahead and try out some of these seduction tips. A few small changes and you will be on your way to becoming that confident, attractive man women can’t help but want to know!