Tips For Attracting Women » Attract Women http://tipsforattractingwomen.net Your Guide On Tips For Attracting Women Mon, 21 Jun 2010 13:07:25 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 Tips to Attract Women With Your Attitude http://tipsforattractingwomen.net/ways-to-attract-women-with-your-attitude http://tipsforattractingwomen.net/ways-to-attract-women-with-your-attitude#comments Tue, 26 Jan 2010 13:59:35 +0000 admin http://TIPSFORATTRACTINGWOMEN.NET/ways-to-attract-women-with-your-attitude

If there is a magic pill that you can pop attractive for women, will you take it?

 

Chances are, most men will answer a yes. But in reality, there is no pill. Yet the human species, since the dawn of civilization, is busy making himself the subject of interest and attention of the woman. Even now, in this era of speed dating sites and meeting the target has not changed.

 

So why is it that some people seem to be on the road all the time, while others seem to be unhappy, no matter what they do? Some say that the aesthetic appearance has to be better. But this is not entirely true.

 

While it may be so that how a guy looks like matters in order to catch a woman’s attention, that alone will not make him totally attractive. What makes the guy go from “Hi there. You alone?” to “Good morning, doll.” is his attitude.

 

Attitude, by definition, are the perspectives and mindsets towards a particular situation. In the dating scenario, it would mean how you behave and think in terms of approaching a woman, chatting in a conversation with her and his salary a little more special than the other women in the room.

 

So what kind of attitude do you have? Many people think that they need to impress the women to attract them. By making an impression is important, you must ensure that this impression is really you. Otherwise, your approach to dating shows that you prefer false impressions to what you actually are, so you can get what you want. Not exactly what you want right?

 

On the contrary, develop the “I am myself” attitude. No pretence, nor the air – just who you really are. Little thing makes men attractive to women than for a man who is not honest about who and he really is. Of course do not be a pervert. Also, this is not to say that you should go and be the “I am myself” attitude and do not put any effort to dress in beautiful clothes, because you are more of shorts and sandals kind of guy.

 

Absolutely not. In fact, the “as is” the attitude should remain behind the scenes. The main idea is that you do not have to pretend species sensitive writer as more of a Monday night football type of guy. But at the same time you have an effort to make your best foot forward.

 

To do this, take the time to look your best. You don’t need to look like Hugh Jackman long lost twins, but do not look (and smell) like a slut. Take the time to choose clothes that are appropriate for you. Attention to personal hygiene, especially if you tend to sweat and you do not forget to check your breathe too. But more importantly, the work on this habit, instead of doing it once in a while. This will increase the level of attractiveness a lot.

 

Now that you’ve shaved and dressed, it is time to work. For example, the approach of someone, you say everything you need, to get her interest and friendly. You do not need to impress with things that are not real about you. Remember, you are who you are and not someone else.

 

If they respond, then good for you. If it does not seem to be interested, no matter how nice you are, it is still ok. In this case, you say that the two of you are not suitable and move on. At the very least, the woman you have just discussed that you knew when to stop. Surprisingly, at half meeting, they can give you a better chance, just because you have chosen for the first time you’ve had.

 

Now this is not a watertight plan that can help you score with the ladies. But it’s much better than pretending to be something that you do not. Develop a healthy attitude about yourself you will not only attractive to the right of women around you, but also for you personally, as you begin to see you in a better light. You can vist how attract women website to learn the most effective ways to attract a women and make them looking for you instead of the other way round.

]]> http://tipsforattractingwomen.net/ways-to-attract-women-with-your-attitude/feed 1 How To Attract Women http://tipsforattractingwomen.net/how-to-attract-women http://tipsforattractingwomen.net/how-to-attract-women#comments Tue, 26 Jan 2010 02:17:14 +0000 admin http://TIPSFORATTRACTINGWOMEN.NET/how-to-attract-women It is unbelievable how many men there are who are awe-struck when it comes to approaching and talking to women. But what I find really appalling is the fact that so many of them are laboring under some unfounded illusions about women that prevent them from making any move whatsoever. Let’s examine some of these misconceptions.
Many men believe that, to be attractive, they have to conform to what women say and want. That’s one sure way to intimidate yourself. Women usually say they prefer men who are tall, dark, handsome, intelligent, rich, athletically built. The truth is, women don’t really know what they want until they see it. They only think this is what they want probably because this is what they’ve seen in their favorite movies or on TV. Most women will be charmed off their feet by men who are smart, charming, funny and good conversationalists.
Another wrong belief is that, to attract women, you have to like what they like and are interested in the things they enjoy. Some men actually pretend to like things that women like, hoping they can create some interest. Nothing could be further from the truth. Whether or not men share the same interests with women is secondary in the realm of attraction and romance. In fact, many women are attracted to men who are their virtual opposites in terms of personality and interests. This is important to point out because some men actually go out of their way to pretend to like the things that the woman they are attracted to likes, which is pathetic and unnecessary.
Even men who are fairly capable of attracting women still have trouble when it comes to sex, mainly because of the misguided belief that women will only sleep with them after they have gone through great and elaborate lengths of courting them. The truth is women, being human beings just like men, have the same needs and desires that we do. And that includes sex. They enjoy sex just like we do. A little experience in this area will convince them that this is true. Usually, women hold off from sleeping with men in order to avoid appearing easy or slutty. It is not because they don’t want to.
A final misconception among men is that if they aren’t any good at dealing with women, they aren’t going to get any better. This is not true. Men usually believe this after years of fear rejection. The fact is that they are unsuccessful with women because they have approached women on the basis of misconceptions. Sometimes they have failed because they lack confidence and women can smell this like sharks smelling blood. But once these men learn to overcome their basic misconceptions, they can approach women with confidence and their fortunes will surely improve.

]]> http://tipsforattractingwomen.net/how-to-attract-women/feed 0 How to Attract Women Like a Pua http://tipsforattractingwomen.net/how-to-attract-women-like-a-pua http://tipsforattractingwomen.net/how-to-attract-women-like-a-pua#comments Sun, 24 Jan 2010 14:21:49 +0000 admin http://TIPSFORATTRACTINGWOMEN.NET/how-to-attract-women-like-a-pua What makes someone really really good with women is having such strong inner game and confidence that they are able to attract women and have them initiate conversations rather than having to rely on canned openers and negs to get the interest of a set. A master pickup artist will be exuding confidence in everything he does, which will make him extremely attractive. Where as a PUA who is just starting out on his journey will be making a conscientious effort to open as many sets as possible and will probably not be able to naturally exude these attractive qualities.   Firstly, try peacocking, which is the art of wearing outrageous and colourful clothing. This will make you stand out from everyone else, and demonstrate that you have the confidence to wear something outrageous, and is something that a pickup artist will often do to increase their attractiveness.  A lot of PUAs will spend more and more time with other PUAs swapping tactics and openers, which will mean that they neglect an important aspect of their social life. Stop assessing a girl for her immediate sexual value to you, and remember the importance of their social value. A guy with a lot of girls in his social circle will be more comfortable talking to girls, and will have higher value if he walks around with a number of women in his company.Think about who would be better placed to attract women: a short ugly guy who strolls in wearing a flowing fur coat with five beautiful women on his arm, who are hanging on his every word, or a 6ft guy standing on his own with a beer looking moody? What most men don’t know, but what every pickup artist will know, is that women don’t put that much emphasis on looks when deciding what they find attractive. They are more attracted to status, high value, and of course, confidence. Of course, telling someone to be confident is like telling some to be rich, or be good looking, however confidence can be learned and ultimately comes from being comfortable. Whether it’s being comfortable in the environment you’re in, comfortable in your own skin, and comfortable talking to beautiful women, confidence is a key feature of being able to attract women. If you feel that you lack confidence then don’t ignore the problem, tackle it head on! Take a tefl course, or sign yourself up for a stand up comedy open mike night, or do anything which will force you to speak in public, and will therefore improve your public speaking skills. If you are not comfortable going to bars, then start going more regularly until you are. If you are not confident opening sets of girls, then just force yourself to start approaching, as it’s the only way you’ll improve. There are plenty of courses and products that will tackle approach anxiety, and the best way is to get out there and start doing it, and if you do it enough you may even become a pickup artist.  Once you have approached a certain amount of sets you will begin to become more comfortable and confident doing it, and will exude a natural confidence and coolness in situations which once made you nervous and anxious. However this will only come about through practice and cannot be magically removed from your psyche. People don’t go from AFC to PUA overnight.If you really want to attract women and improve at it, try making some changes to what you are currently doing. Start making an effort to peacock, and wear more noticeable flamboyant things when you go out. Make more of an effort to include women in your social circle, and go out with them more. When approaching girls don’t just think about whether you can f-close them, think about what value they could add if you were to start going out with them. A good PUA will be able to incorporate all these things into his social circle naturally, which will give him the confidence and attractiveness that a lot of guys don’t have.

]]> http://tipsforattractingwomen.net/how-to-attract-women-like-a-pua/feed 6 Attracting Women: Older Women v.s. Younger Women http://tipsforattractingwomen.net/attracting-women-older-women-v-s-younger-women http://tipsforattractingwomen.net/attracting-women-older-women-v-s-younger-women#comments Fri, 22 Jan 2010 13:54:49 +0000 admin http://TIPSFORATTRACTINGWOMEN.NET/attracting-women-older-women-v-s-younger-women Many men agree that attracting women who are older (28+) is easier because women at that age tend to allow your personality to shine more so than younger women (18-27).
The argument usually centers around younger women being too ‘flighty’ and less interested in being serious for too long in an interaction.
Those suggestions are partly true.
Generally speaking and compared to older women, younger women don’t have as much experience with sexual courtships and the ins and outs of dating, love and relationships.
To a younger woman, being all giggly and energetic may be her best way of socializing, connecting with you and expressing her happiness with you in a situation.
If you can’t ‘vibe’ with her on that sort of level, then she might see you as ‘weird’ or ‘boring’.
Additionally, a younger woman might thoroughly enjoy watching movies where Hollywood stars demonstrate passionate and interesting sexual courtships, but will be clueless as to how to make it happen for herself in real-life.
This inexperience on the younger woman’s part might leave you thinking that she isn’t interested or doesn’t like you, or that attracting women of that age is too hard. However, it is more likely that you are incorrectly reading her signals, or lack thereof.
Generally speaking, an older woman will have had more experience with dating and be able to give you more obvious and effective signals of interest so attracting women of that age will seem easier.
An older woman might also express her happiness with you in a situation by using more ‘interested’ facial expressions, body language and tonality and involving herself in longer and more meaningful conversations with you.
Now, I’ve been using the words ‘generally speaking’ because, as you may have experienced, some younger women are very mature, sexually and socially.
One of my girlfriends from last year was 21 years old (I’m 29). She understood things about dating and sex that you’d expect from someone much, much older.
When we first met, our conversations and interactions, while flirty and fun, were also deep and mature.
If you aren’t attracting women between the age of 18-27 and then moving it towards the point of having a younger girlfriend, then you may simply be going about it in the wrong way.
Here’s an example…
I was coaching a client in Sydney a couple of weekends back. As we vibed with two younger women in a popular city bar, there was an old, black & white cartoon playing in the background.
The two younger women were very energetic and giggly, so I geared the conversation towards the cartoon, cartoons in general and the funny things that cartoon characters do, for about one or two minutes.
We all had a good laugh. We then we talked about some ‘normal stuff’ relating to the bar we were in, for a minute or two, and then went back to talking about some other ‘fun stuff.’
I lead the women through a conversation that had emotional variance, in a way that they could relate and contribute to. Afterwards, my client commented with amazement on how the two women just naturally took to me.
Here’s the thing though: Regardless of how skilled I am at meeting and attracting women, the interaction would not have gone so well if I had tried to interact with the two younger women by focusing on ‘normal, boring stuff’ and then expecting them to want to stay there and experience that sort of vibe.
They had a different energy level and way of interacting, so I adapted to the situation.
If you want to beging successfully attracting women of all ages, then you are going to need to learn how to be flexible with the various personality types you meet.
A quick disclaimer: I’m not saying that you should not be yourself, or that you should pretend to be interested in talking about cartoons.
Hell, one of my favourite subjects second to dating advice is transhumanism, but talking about the mind-blowing possibilities of science just doesn’t seem to enthrall 99% of women in bar environments!
…especially younger women. So, I adapt in order to be effective…and it works every time.
Note: Once you begin dating, you’ll be surprised at how interested women will be in who you are, what you know, what you like talking about and where you’re going with your life.
However, before you even get to that enjoyable place, you’re going to need to learn how to adapt and explore interactions and conversations based on the unique individuals you meet.
I can’t remember who said this, but I think it’s an awesome take on calibrating to the situation. I think it might have been Samuel L. Jackson on some TV show when they interviewed him.
Anyway, the ‘guy’ said: “The epitome of cool, is being able to walk into a room full of strangers and get along with everyone on their level, while still being yourself.”
Now get out there and start attracting women!

]]> http://tipsforattractingwomen.net/attracting-women-older-women-v-s-younger-women/feed 3 How to be sociable and attract women http://tipsforattractingwomen.net/how-to-be-sociable-and-attract-women http://tipsforattractingwomen.net/how-to-be-sociable-and-attract-women#comments Thu, 21 Jan 2010 01:59:59 +0000 admin http://TIPSFORATTRACTINGWOMEN.NET/how-to-be-sociable-and-attract-women If you are this type of man, then you have to read on to understand how you can be sociable and attractive to women. You might not even have to approach her, you might get approached which is possibly the best scenario.How to be sociable and attract women? Being sociable does not come with you when you are born. You have to develop it on your own. You develop this as you grow. If you are already in the dating age, you have to be self-confident to be able to socialize well. Start by being friendly. Smile; show your positive outlook in life by not being shy. While you have to be sociable, approachable and not shy, you should not be arrogant. Both shyness and arrogance will turn women away from you. This is an important lesson to remember in seduction and how to attract women and pick up girls. If you are with friends, do not be too quiet, as this will mark you as an outsider. Share you thoughts, ideas and be friendly with everyone. Women will notice a man who can carry a conversation well. This is the exciting type of man women would love to mingle with.Look and feel attractive and seductive Do not go out with your friend and drink too much. Do not make a fool of yourself by being drunk in public. You have to look your best all the time. Dress in cool, trendy clothes, fix your hair and wear cologne. While women do not look into the physical aspects alone, looking good has many perks including women trying to get your attention.Be the life of the party if you want to attract women Being quiet is nice, but being nice will make women perceive you as boring. You do not want this and thus you have to share your wit, share your knowledge and throw in some jokes. Not only will your friends love to be with you but also women will likewise want some of your attention. A good sense of humor always attracts women. Women love excitement and if you can pick her interest, she will be interested in you. Complimenting woman is also a seduction technique. However, you should not exaggerate because she will feel self-conscious, and when this happens, you may not get another chance. Finally, because physical attributes are important to attract women, it may help to hit the gym regularly. Exercise will make you energetic and active. It will also make your body lean and muscled, which some women die for. Being sociable, good-looking and exciting will definitely attract women.

If you want to learn how to attract women or learn the art of seduction or how to pick up girls for dating, please do visit our site or read our Ebook

]]> http://tipsforattractingwomen.net/how-to-be-sociable-and-attract-women/feed 5 3 Reasons Why Having Female Friends Will Help You Attract Women http://tipsforattractingwomen.net/3-reasons-why-having-female-friends-will-help-you-attract-women http://tipsforattractingwomen.net/3-reasons-why-having-female-friends-will-help-you-attract-women#comments Fri, 15 Jan 2010 02:45:32 +0000 admin http://TIPSFORATTRACTINGWOMEN.NET/3-reasons-why-having-female-friends-will-help-you-attract-women Whether you are looking for one-night-stands, threesomes, an amazing girlfriend…or whatever, implementing what you’re about to learn will send you on the right path.
However, not doing what I’m about to tell you is one of the main sticking points preventing men from attracting women.
What you are about to learn is probably nothing you haven’t already heard. It, however, is one of the most overlooked skills – especially by guys learning how to attract and be more successful with women.
Before I tell you what this secret is, I am going to share a little story with you. When I first became serious about mastering, what I used to perceive as, the ego bruising “social minefields”, in order to succeed with the women I most wanted, I befriended many guys trying, as well, to get this area of their life handled.
Some of these guys considered themselves to be scared little men. Others thought of themselves as full blown Casanovas. And a few felt like Average Joes. Some were amazing at quickly getting women into bed; while a few, unfortunately, couldn’t, even if their life depended on it, talk to a woman.
All of us became very close and formed a squad with one goal in mind: to become more successful with women. I made a lot of good friends, and witnessed a few of them do some amazing things, ranging from making out with women in bars to sporadically having sex with a woman they had just met.
In spite of what looked to be great success, there was a dark, discouraging cloud hovering over us: none of us had any female friends. Some of the group had female friends, but got rid of them, with the idea that they would take away time from picking up women. A few had never had a female friend. When we went out we never were just hanging out. Our only goal was to create attraction in women. We did care one bit about interacting with women we felt weren’t attracted to us. When going into a bar, women could feel our hunter energy, a pack wolves waiting to attack. Even if one of us made out with a woman, the night would usually end with just us guys.
Now, before breaking down the reasons for making at least five female friends, I’m going to get crystal clear about what I mean by “making friends with women”.
If you’re someone who sits around with their female friends, giving each other hot pink manicures and pedicures, listening to their troubles with men, you’re in big trouble. Being friends with women is not about you playing the big passive bottom in their “bitter at men” gang bang. The only exception to this is if you are gay. My point: being friends with women is about treating them exactly how you treat your guy friends. Women know you are not their girlfriends. When you act like you are their girlfriend, they interpret it as an unconvincing pretense used to get into their pants.
To recap: being friends with women is about acting the way you would around your guy friends.
Here are 3 reasons for making friends with women.
Reason # 1: You Will Be More Relaxed Around Women In General:
Men who don’t have female friends are usually nervous and uncomfortable around women, causing women to feel uncomfortable around them. When a woman picks this sort of man up by the common scruff of his neck, and mercilessly tears him apart, like a cheaply wrought rag doll, he becomes anxious and uncomfortable in his own skin. This results in her becoming nervous and uncomfortable. In her book, this will take you straight to the top of the Creep-O-Meter.
Trying to make women feel comfortable around you when you are uncomfortable in your own skin is usually a losing battle – and often times leads to them feeling even more uncomfortable.
The biggest part of making women feel comfortable is being comfortable in your own skin and around women. The quickest road I know to becoming comfortable in your own skin and around women is to make female friends.
Reason # 2: You Will No Longer Need An Endless Supply Of Pick Up Lines And Memorized Material To Be Successful With Women:
I know some guys who are amazing at approaching women and initially getting women attracted to them but as soon as they run out of rehearsed material, things take a terrible turn for the worst as they collapse completely. One common scenario is that a guy will meet a woman and succeed in generating the emotion inside her of wanting, chasing, and reaching for more of him through using memorized material. She willingly gives him her number. When he calls she has jamais vu (jamais vu is the opposite of déjà vu: it is the illusion that you are encountering something you have already experienced for the first time). It is like she is talking to a total stranger and the emotion of her feeling attraction towards him is long gone. Since he doesn’t know what to do outside the realm of using memorized material, she treats him like a random telemarketer trying to solicit her, cutting the phone call unusually short and hanging up. The problem is that this guy neither understands women nor knows how to act around them. One of the best ways for developing these skills is by being friends with women – especially the type you strive to succeed with. After talking to a woman for a few minutes you’ll know exactly how to produce attraction with her, without having to use rehearsed material. I’m not against using memorized material – in fact, I’m a fan of it. But if you can only interact with women using memorized material, you are in big trouble.
Reason # 3: Women Know When A Man Is Not Frequently Around Other Women:
Women are psychic when comes to knowing whether or not a man is frequently around women. Women assume that if other females hang around you, then you must be a cool guy. They assume, likewise, that if no females hang around you, something might be wrong with you – bad thing! This is pretty much herd mentality – go figure!
One of the major problems with a lot of the material on how to attract women is that it only focuses on making you feel more confident about yourself. As, alas, you might know, you can do all the affirmations in the world, but if you don’t have the social skills to attract women, your out of luck.

]]> http://tipsforattractingwomen.net/3-reasons-why-having-female-friends-will-help-you-attract-women/feed 6 How – Attract Women With Common Interest the Best Way http://tipsforattractingwomen.net/how-attract-women-with-common-interest-the-best-way http://tipsforattractingwomen.net/how-attract-women-with-common-interest-the-best-way#comments Thu, 14 Jan 2010 14:31:56 +0000 admin http://TIPSFORATTRACTINGWOMEN.NET/how-attract-women-with-common-interest-the-best-way For many men, attracting women is very difficult. For some men, it is very simple. Women feel attracted to them automatically. There is a certain magnetism, or so it seems. It is their personality, their confidence and speaking style that attracts women of a certain type of these men. Now we have the feeling, because the question of a man – Do you know how to attract women? Sounds crazy to some extent. Everyone is different and it is for every woman. The attraction can never be universal. Let’s talk further.

 

Can you an introvert person – More of a thinker and an intellectual. You will find it difficult to attract women that are outgoing and extrovert. It is said that opposites attract, but the attraction will not last long. If your loved one wants to go hiking, you might want to opt for a poetry recital session. So the attraction may break, but will not be the last. Even if you have an extrovert man, male and love of adventure and risk, you can not attract women in front of nature. You will attract women who find a lot of similarity between them and you.

 

It is not difficult to attract women, because they are looking for good partners. The problem arises when trying to attract women who have nothing in common with us. These women will not be able to understand and communicate with us. How can we talk about tennis, with a woman who loves only reading Shakespeare? The solution is the first order for women with character and goals. Once you find, talk normally, and tell them about your wishes for them. Success usually comes with a simple approach.

 

However, you can also master how to attract women from how attract women site. They have the best resource for men who wants to attract women.

]]> http://tipsforattractingwomen.net/how-attract-women-with-common-interest-the-best-way/feed 3 How to Attract Women Instantly, Even After Just Breaking Up With your Girlfriend http://tipsforattractingwomen.net/how-to-attract-women-instantly-even-after-just-breaking-up-with-your-girlfriend http://tipsforattractingwomen.net/how-to-attract-women-instantly-even-after-just-breaking-up-with-your-girlfriend#comments Tue, 12 Jan 2010 13:54:11 +0000 admin http://TIPSFORATTRACTINGWOMEN.NET/how-to-attract-women-instantly-even-after-just-breaking-up-with-your-girlfriend Wouldn’t it be great if someone would have actually taken the time to teach you how to attract women a long time ago? Instead you were left to brave the rough waters alone, snagging a precious few and being rejected by the rest. Let’s face it, it’s inevitable that not every relationship is going to last. If you just broke up with your girlfriend it can be especially tough to get back into the game again if you don’t know the right moves. This is where I come in. I am going to tell you exactly what you need to know about how to attract women.

Rule #1 Do Not Cheat!

Cheating on your girlfriend may be tempting at the time but it is never the way you want a relationship to end. You know the saying, “once a cheater, always a cheater”? If you cheat on one girl, chances are that the news is going to fly around. No girl is ever going to want to date you if she knows that you have cheated before. Do yourself a favor and don’t cheat!

Rule #2 Your Ex’s Friends

If you are in a relationship that you know is not going to amount to anything long lasting, you may want to get acquainted with your girlfriend’s friends. Hang out as a group and show her friends that you are a great guy. Listen to them and engage in conversation no matter how uninterested you may be. Remember to be faithful though! Be affectionate to your girlfriend in front of her friends. You are taken so be sure to act like it. The more interested you are in your girlfriend, the more desirable you look in front of other girls. Chances are that when the relationship finally ends, her friends will be waiting to get their hands on you.

Rule #3 Show That You Care

While you are with your girlfriend, show her that you care by celebrating special occasions like holidays and birthdays with her. Take her out to a restaurant or movie. Ask her friends for advice about what gifts to buy. This is a must if you want to attract women! Being the good guy will signal to every other woman in town that you are a definite catch. Your girlfriend’s friends will think you are the sweetest guy around since for consulting them on gift and party ideas.

Rule #4 Ask Questions

Girls love a guy who wants to listen to them. So if you want to attract women, ask them questions. It doesn’t matter who she is or where you are, a simple question or show of concern will have the ladies falling all over you. If a girl looks upset or seems bothered, ask her if she is okay. If she wants to tell you all about it then turn to her, make eye contact and let her explain without interrupting. By asking questions you are putting yourself out there as a desirable mate.

Rule#5 The BreakUp

When you finally break up with your current girlfriend, try to end things on good terms. This will put you in a much better position if you are hoping to make a move on one of her friends. Be mature about the breakup and do your best not to argue or fight. If all ends smoothly, the transition back into the world of dating will be a breeze.

]]> http://tipsforattractingwomen.net/how-to-attract-women-instantly-even-after-just-breaking-up-with-your-girlfriend/feed 1 Three Tips to Cure Shyness Around Women http://tipsforattractingwomen.net/three-tips-to-cure-shyness-around-women http://tipsforattractingwomen.net/three-tips-to-cure-shyness-around-women#comments Sun, 03 Jan 2010 23:23:08 +0000 admin http://TIPSFORATTRACTINGWOMEN.NET/three-tips-to-cure-shyness-around-women If you find that you become shy around women, I bring you good news. Shyness around women can be cured with little effort.
Shyness is the main reason many guys never try to attract a woman or approach them. Their shyness virtually paralyzes them to the point that they never make a move while other guys leave with the attractive women.
But, this can change for the better. Here are three tips to cure shyness around women and help you become that confident guy any woman wants:
Tip 1: Eliminate Your Expectations
One reason guys become nervous around women is because they focus too much on the outcome of the interaction. They place too many expectations on what they hope to achieve, whether it is getting her phone number or going on a date.
Rather than focus on the outcome, just enjoy the conversation and company. Relax. Do not worry about whether or not she is into you. Just appreciate that you are talking to her and have a good time.
When you feel yourself becoming nervous, just repeat in your mind that you really do not care what happens. It would be great if you got her number, but it would not be the worst thing ever if you didn’t. Like I said, just have fun. The last thing you want her to see is how nervous you are.
Tip 2: Know What You Want
I really am not contradicting myself. Yes, I told you in the first tip to remove all expectations and now I am suggesting you figure out exactly what you want.
The difference is that you need a plan of action. This is far different from removing your expectations of the outcome. Always know what outcome you want to occur, just do not dwell on it during the conversations.
Ask yourself: What do I want to come from talking to her? Do I just want to have a good time? Do I want to secure a date? Or become intimate with her? The better you can answer these questions and know what you want, the more comfortable you will feel at shifting the conversation to make it happen.
Tip 3: Just Go For It!
Practice is the best way to cure shyness around women. Knowing what you want, as I recommended above, makes it a lot easier to go for it when you have the opportunity.
If you still find that you are nervous when talking to women, my advice is to just keep practicing. With practice, you will eventually feel more comfortable and less nervous around women.
As with any skill, learning to become comfortable approaching women is something that must be practiced. Practice your conversation skills so you can determine what works and what does not work. You will gradually build your confidence and soon wonder why you were ever shy around women. Once women start picking up on your new confident personality, they will find you even more attractive.
Paying attention to these three tips will, eventually, reduce your shyness. With a little effort, you can be that guy taking home the beautiful woman!

]]> http://tipsforattractingwomen.net/three-tips-to-cure-shyness-around-women/feed 3 How to Attract Women with Body Language Flirting http://tipsforattractingwomen.net/how-to-attract-women-with-body-language-flirting http://tipsforattractingwomen.net/how-to-attract-women-with-body-language-flirting#comments Sat, 02 Jan 2010 22:54:08 +0000 admin http://TIPSFORATTRACTINGWOMEN.NET/how-to-attract-women-with-body-language-flirting Flirting is one of the best skills you can learn when it comes to attracting women. Flirting is not difficult, but there are some techniques that you can learn to ensure you are effectively building the chemistry and attraction. By understanding the best flirting techniques, you can project your sexuality without saying a word and make her attracted to you almost instantly.
Unfortunately, men are not taught relationship and attraction skills and, consequently, many guys are lost when it comes to effectively building sexual chemistry with a woman. The good news is that flirting is something you can learn.
Before you actually begin flirting, though, it is essential that you prepare yourself mentally. You need to be confident and comfortable with yourself and disregard any faults you may let bring you down. No one is perfect, but it will be far more difficult to attract a woman when you are in a negative mindset.
Successful flirting revolves around having fun, portraying an interesting personality and enjoying the woman you are talking to. All of this ‘preparation’ is important to create an atmosphere conducive to flirting. This will help ensure you can build an almost immediate connection with any woman you engage in conversation.
Once the right atmosphere is set, you must make sure your body languages is aligned with your attitude. Your body language should project a sense of confidence yet a relaxed attitude. It’s all about body language flirting!
The key is to show her that you are enjoying the conversation and interaction, yet not worried about the outcome. What you want to avoid is a sign that you are taking things too seriously. Rather, you want her to see you as a confidant man who is not concerned about whether or not she is into you. This will give off just the right positive vibe to subconsciously draw her to you and make her want you even more.
It is also important that you give off a warm, welcoming attitude which is projected through your body language as well. Learn forward to her somewhat while she is talking and leave your arms unfolded. Folding your arms across you, for example, shows a closed personality and definitely not contribute to an attraction.
Finally, knowing how to use your smile is essential to body language flirting. A friendly smile tells a woman you are interested in her and want to get to know her.
Giving off a confident smile adds to the right flirting atmosphere and is a welcoming sign helping her feel more relaxed and comfortable around you. Your smile really is the best tool you have when it comes to flirting.
Understanding and knowing how to flirt is essential to attracting women, but portraying the right body language is basically a precursor to even the initial conversation. Create the right atmosphere, smile and relax. By doing this, you will find it much easier to build the attraction.

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