In almost everything that we do, it’s inevitable that we are going to make a few mistakes from time to time. And when we do, it’s easy to allow these mistakes to weigh you down. However, when these mistakes are with women, it can severely hurt your ego and hamper your success with women. You might even declare that you are going to give up altogether. Luckily, you will probably come back to being a little more reasonable and decide that swearing off women is NOT the choice for you.

Knowing what mistakes to avoid with women is a GOOD start to getting past this issue. When you know what to avoid, you are that much close to discovering what works instead.

Here are a few mistakes with women that you want to be aware of and try not to make:

1. Don’t seem overzealous. A woman can easily tell when a man is way too excited about just talking to her. And when she detects this, it has a strange effect. It makes her find YOU less attractive. I am pretty sure this is the last thing that you want to occur. Be relaxed and act as if it’s no big thing at all to talk to her.

2. Don’t try and be a player with women if you are not. A lot of guys will try and develop a fake it till you make it approach with women and try to act as though they are a player with women. Well, the thing is, a lot of women are turned off by this, but also, a fake approach is EASY to see through. When she does see through it, her opinion of you will be much lower.

How can you master the art of seducing high quality women?

1. You have to have the right presentation. Look, she’s the kind of woman that can attract any guy she wants. So, you have to up your game a little. You have to go out there and look the part of the high quality male. Otherwise, she is not going to even think twice about you.

2. You have to be able to use conversation to build rapport and show your quality. The fact is, most high quality women are not really looking to have a roll in the hay with a busboy. You have to be able to show her that you are on the level of men that she would like to date. You have to speak to her in a way that shows this. And it has to be REAL.

3. You have to have genuine confidence. A high quality woman is used to being around men that are confident. She’s used to being around guys that are naturally this way. So, you have to be able to really have that level of confidence in yourself. This is not fake it till you make it time. This is good for you, as developing genuine self confidence will help you in ALL areas of your life.

Sure, pickup lines might work a little on an 18 yr old college freshman, but once a woman has heard them a few times, the effect really wears off. One of the most important things that you have to understand is that words make up only about 10 percent of communication. The rest is body language and tone of voice as well as the FLOW of your conversation.

Also, the more attractive a woman is, the more likely it is that she has heard the same game ran on her multiple times, even hundreds. To attract a woman, you have to make yourself STAND OUT. And you are not going to do this if you follow the same approach that other guys do when they TRY to pick her up.

If you are spending your time trying to find the perfect line to attract women, then you are wasting valuable energy that could be spent on learning what really works. You have to remember that with attracting women, what sounds good on paper, does not always work in REAL life.

Instead of learning cheesy pickup lines or any other kind of “game” that relies on an unnatural approach, you should spend that time lerning what really works to attract women in the REAL world.

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Women are NOT attracted to the guy that tries to be everything to HER.

Guys that try to be Mr. Perfect end up being Mr. Alone. Why is this? For one, women are not stupid. They know that men are not perfect. So, when you try and act this way, you are coming across as being fake. She might wonder what about you IS real. Also, trying to be everything to a woman only makes you look like a pushover, a doormat. And this is not what women are looking for.

You have to display alpha male qualities.

In order to really attract a woman and get her to notice YOU, you have to be able to display alpha male qualities to her. This includes confidence, the lack of neediness or desperation, and having your life together. Women are much more attracted to men that have a life and don’t NEED her for their validation.

Women are attracted to certain men, because they make them FEEL something.

When you come across as too safe and too boring, you are not making her feel the emotions that charge her up sexually. So, she is NOT going to see you as a man that she would fall for. She might see you as a friend, but, she is not going to see YOU as a lover.

Why is this and what can YOU do differently?

Most men play the role that they believe works to attract a woman. They’ve seen it in movies and they’ve been told it works, and it doesn’t. What is that role? The guy that becomes a girl’s best friend right away. Well, not really a best friend, but more of a doormat than anything else. See, this does nothing at all to trigger a woman’s attraction. A woman is not attracted to a man because he’s the kind of pushover that will do whatever she wants and says.

Women want a man that is fun to be with, challenges them, and makes them FEEL excitement.

Unless you are looking for a woman that is in settle down mode right away, you have to become this kind of guy that can excite her and fill her with passion and emotion. Most men fail to do this. Instead, they try and play it on the safe side. And the safe side does not lead to her sleeping at your side in YOUR bed.

You have to approach a woman and make HER feel something for YOU.

If you fail to do this, if you fail to create real and intense attraction with a woman, then the odds are not good that she will fall for YOU.

What should YOU know about seducing a woman?

1. It all starts with your approach. From the beginning, you have to be able to create attraction with a woman and work on escalating her attraction for you. When you approach a woman, you have to be able to give off the vibe of a leader and of a man that has strong VALUE in a woman’s eyes.

2. Your conversation has to lead in to more. Your conversation after you approach her should lead into more intimate talk and flirting. A lot of men struggle to flirt with women in a sexual way, but this is absolutely necessary IF you want to be able to get to the seduction.

3. Your body language has to speak to her. Although conversation is important, you also have to know how to use your body language to give off unconscious signals to her. Women interpret body language a lot better than men do, so you really want to make the best use of YOUR body language to build sexual attraction.

You don’t have to be RICH.

It’s not a secret that there are wealthy guys that seem to have it easy with women. For most of these men, they would still be able to attract women without the money. It’s more about the attitude that you project that will attract a woman to YOU. Most men project an attitude that does nothing to make a woman feel the butterflies that she NEEDS to feel in order to fall for a man.

You don’t have to be HANDSOME.

There are many guys that are good looking that suck at attracting women. And then there are men that are ugly as sin and they seem to have a never ending stream of women attached to them. Your personality has to be MAGNETIC and if it is, your looks do not matter all that much.

To Make HER Fall for YOU…

You have to be able to trigger her attraction. You have to be able to use HER psychology as a female and do the things that NATURALLY will attract her to you. And, you have to separate yourself from the other guys that are out there, because they are out there. You have to be able to stand out in her mind. This is the way to ensure that she WILL fall for YOU.

You are not alone.

Most men feel this way and there is nothing wrong with that. The only problem is if you allow yourself to feel this way forever and do nothing at all to change your situation or your success with women. Being able to avoid many of the common pitfalls that most men seem to make is an easy way to make yourself more successful with women.

Here are a few things that you should NEVER do to attract a woman:

1. Never become the kind of guy that becomes a doormat for a woman. A lot of men will do this, especially when they are not very successful with women. Becoming a doormat and allowing her to walk all over you is the quickest way to lose a woman’s attraction for you. You have to realize that attraction occurs for many reasons, but being a pushover is NOT one of them.

2. Never try to use pick up lines or gimmicky routines to attract a woman. These gimmicks, routines, and pick up lines are all things that instantly let a woman know that you are just trying to score with her. And this usually will turn her off very quickly. Remember, this article is about attracting women and not girls. You have to come across as genuine and have real charm and charisma with a woman.

3. Never give up your personal life. I can’t tell you how many guys I know that have made their world revolve around a woman only to be rejected by her in the end. You should still maintain your social life and your hobbies, as this will make you seem more attractive to a woman. Women do make judgments based on your perceived social value. And if you have no social life other than with her, you will lose all of that and her interest in you as well.

These are just three very common mistakes that men make when it comes to dating women. You have to understand what attracts a woman and do those things. You also have to know what does not work to attract a woman and make sure that you NEVER make those mistakes.

Here are a few tips to get a first date with a woman:

1. Get your mind right. When your head is screwed up, it can be nearly impossible to attract a woman and get to the point where the two of you are dating. A lot of guys have had rejections before and they allow these to hold them back from really going after the woman that they are attracted to. Of course, this will only guarantee that you WON’T get a date with her.

2. Get your appearance together. You don’t have to hit the mall and flush your bank account buying new gear. However, you do have to make yourself look presentable. If you can make yourself seem to have style and edge, it doesn’t matter whether the shirt cost $ 20 or $ 200.

3. Act in the moment. Too many guys get hung up in the questions in their head. Does she like me? Will she reject me? Instead of wasting time and energy, just act in the moment. You might be surprised at how many women WILL say YES to you.

Here are 3 killer tips to gain confidence with women:

1. Re-frame the situation in YOUR mind. A lot of men are guilty of putting too much pressure on themselves when it comes to dating and women. They try too hard to be the “perfect” guy or they see the situation as being too important. You don’t want to do this. You want to re-frame it as just being a chance to go out and have fun. This will take the pressure off and help your confidence with women.

2. Get used to being around women. For some men, it is not too often that they are around single women. If this is your situation, you may want to try just approaching women with the sole purpose to get a conversation going and to become comfortable around a woman. Not feeling like you have to get a phone number, a date, or sex will take the pressure off and allow you just to become comfortable around women.

3. Learn to control YOUR body language. Your body does most of the talking. Knowing how to use your body language the right way will make you come across as being more confident AND allow you to generate attraction with a woman right off the bat. This will ease the pressure as well and allow your confidence to rise.

Being able to show confidence around women is a key to attracting women. Yet, most men are unsure of HOW to gain confidence with women. These three killer tips will give you a good start.