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In almost everything that we do, it’s inevitable that we are going to make a few mistakes from time to time. And when we do, it’s easy to allow these mistakes to weigh you down. However, when these mistakes are with women, it can severely hurt your ego and hamper your success with women. You might even declare that you are going to give up altogether. Luckily, you will probably come back to being a little more reasonable and decide that swearing off women is NOT the choice for you.

Knowing what mistakes to avoid with women is a GOOD start to getting past this issue. When you know what to avoid, you are that much close to discovering what works instead.

Here are a few mistakes with women that you want to be aware of and try not to make:

1. Don’t seem overzealous. A woman can easily tell when a man is way too excited about just talking to her. And when she detects this, it has a strange effect. It makes her find YOU less attractive. I am pretty sure this is the last thing that you want to occur. Be relaxed and act as if it’s no big thing at all to talk to her.

2. Don’t try and be a player with women if you are not. A lot of guys will try and develop a fake it till you make it approach with women and try to act as though they are a player with women. Well, the thing is, a lot of women are turned off by this, but also, a fake approach is EASY to see through. When she does see through it, her opinion of you will be much lower.

I don’t know about you, but I prefer quality over quantity any day. When it comes to dating women, this is especially true. I would much rather attract a woman that is a 10 on all points, than 3 women that are only a 5. To attract high quality women, you have to really understand the mindset that will make this happen. If you can get the mindset down, you are much more likely to seduce quality women.

How can you master the art of seducing high quality women?

1. You have to have the right presentation. Look, she’s the kind of woman that can attract any guy she wants. So, you have to up your game a little. You have to go out there and look the part of the high quality male. Otherwise, she is not going to even think twice about you.

2. You have to be able to use conversation to build rapport and show your quality. The fact is, most high quality women are not really looking to have a roll in the hay with a busboy. You have to be able to show her that you are on the level of men that she would like to date. You have to speak to her in a way that shows this. And it has to be REAL.

3. You have to have genuine confidence. A high quality woman is used to being around men that are confident. She’s used to being around guys that are naturally this way. So, you have to be able to really have that level of confidence in yourself. This is not fake it till you make it time. This is good for you, as developing genuine self confidence will help you in ALL areas of your life.

A lot of times, you will hear about these pick up lines that supposedly work every single time to attract women, and I have to tell you from real world experience, that is not the case. The problem with a pick up line is that it usually SOUNDS like a pick up line, which makes most women resistant to you and your approach.

Sure, pickup lines might work a little on an 18 yr old college freshman, but once a woman has heard them a few times, the effect really wears off. One of the most important things that you have to understand is that words make up only about 10 percent of communication. The rest is body language and tone of voice as well as the FLOW of your conversation.

Also, the more attractive a woman is, the more likely it is that she has heard the same game ran on her multiple times, even hundreds. To attract a woman, you have to make yourself STAND OUT. And you are not going to do this if you follow the same approach that other guys do when they TRY to pick her up.

If you are spending your time trying to find the perfect line to attract women, then you are wasting valuable energy that could be spent on learning what really works. You have to remember that with attracting women, what sounds good on paper, does not always work in REAL life.

Instead of learning cheesy pickup lines or any other kind of “game” that relies on an unnatural approach, you should spend that time lerning what really works to attract women in the REAL world.

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It can be puzzling at times to try and figure out why certain men seem to have all of the luck when it comes to women, while others seem to have no luck at all. You may have tried to do all of the things that you have heard work to attract a woman, and yet, your dating and personal life don’t seem to be showing much improvement at all. If this is the case, do not worry. You can learn how to attract women, and also why women fall for certain men.

Women are NOT attracted to the guy that tries to be everything to HER.

Guys that try to be Mr. Perfect end up being Mr. Alone. Why is this? For one, women are not stupid. They know that men are not perfect. So, when you try and act this way, you are coming across as being fake. She might wonder what about you IS real. Also, trying to be everything to a woman only makes you look like a pushover, a doormat. And this is not what women are looking for.

You have to display alpha male qualities.

In order to really attract a woman and get her to notice YOU, you have to be able to display alpha male qualities to her. This includes confidence, the lack of neediness or desperation, and having your life together. Women are much more attracted to men that have a life and don’t NEED her for their validation.

Women are attracted to certain men, because they make them FEEL something.

When you come across as too safe and too boring, you are not making her feel the emotions that charge her up sexually. So, she is NOT going to see you as a man that she would fall for. She might see you as a friend, but, she is not going to see YOU as a lover.

When it comes to dating and women, many men will find themselves confused. You may feel as though you should be able to attract a girlfriend easily, but for some reason, it’s just not happening for YOU. If you were taught to be the kind of guy that instantly tries to be everything to a woman, then your odds of being able to attract a girlfriend are not all that good. At least, not the kind of girlfriend that you REALLY want.

Why is this and what can YOU do differently?

Most men play the role that they believe works to attract a woman. They’ve seen it in movies and they’ve been told it works, and it doesn’t. What is that role? The guy that becomes a girl’s best friend right away. Well, not really a best friend, but more of a doormat than anything else. See, this does nothing at all to trigger a woman’s attraction. A woman is not attracted to a man because he’s the kind of pushover that will do whatever she wants and says.

Women want a man that is fun to be with, challenges them, and makes them FEEL excitement.

Unless you are looking for a woman that is in settle down mode right away, you have to become this kind of guy that can excite her and fill her with passion and emotion. Most men fail to do this. Instead, they try and play it on the safe side. And the safe side does not lead to her sleeping at your side in YOUR bed.

You have to approach a woman and make HER feel something for YOU.

If you fail to do this, if you fail to create real and intense attraction with a woman, then the odds are not good that she will fall for YOU.