Speed dating is actually a very convenient way of meeting girls. True it is challenging and rather nerve wrecking but it is also the best way of choosing a date. In one room you can meet any number of girls; it ought to be cool, right? Sadly in most cases it is not so. Speed dating requires totally different rules and guys who can normally charm women at other places fail to attract women here.

What does speed dating require? Well, here’s a simple question and the answer to that is also rather simple. You have to impress a girl in few minutes. The first approach should be what you should eliminate. In the sense that you cannot tell her or show her everything about yourself in say ten minutes, so you need to cut out certain aspects.

Don’t talk to her about yourself besides the mandatory introduction. Let her talk instead. Look full into her eyes but don’t make her feel intimidated. Please don’t pierce into her soul rather your glance should be soft and gentle.

Dress smartly but also sensibly. Find out what looks best on yourself and wear that. Don’t overdress, as in; don’t wear your Sunday best. She shouldn’t get the feeling that you are trying too hard to get a date. It’s obvious that all the girls and guys who attend this speed dating session are all on the lookout for partners, but there is a general difference between looking out and desperately looking out. Girls hate guys who are needy or come on too strongly. Hence play it cool and keep your hormones in check. She should be able to get the feeling that you will be cool even if you don’t get a girl right then.

Peak her interest and then move on to the next girl. She should have the feeling that there is a lot more to discuss with you. Do not ask for her phone number. If she wants to give you she will do it without you asking for it. Talk to her intelligently. Since you will get only ten minutes, do not start a discourse on a philosophical topic or on something that is equally heavy, instead talk about something that is funny and interesting.

Make the girl feel comfortable. Remember that she is doing the same thing as you hence the chances are that she is as apprehensive and as uncomfortable as you are. Crack a joke, smile a lot and lighten the atmosphere.

Have a good body language. It is very important that you speak to the girl through your body posture and movements rather than your mouth as there will be hardly any time to do that. Keep your shoulders straight and your movement fluid. Have an easy smile on your face and always look deeply into her eyes. Touch her hands at times so that she feels comforted. Do not try to do anything sexual with the girl as she will not like it.