Archive for October, 2009

When trying to attract a woman, most men end up making some pretty common mistakes. It’s not your fault if you have been doing these things, they are what you have been told WORKS. However, real world results will prove otherwise. See, most men do NOT end up with the woman of their dreams. Instead, they are forced to settle for whatever woman that they CAN attract.

You can learn what to do to attract almost any woman you desire, simply by figuring out what mistakes not to make.

Here they are:

1. Becoming too clingy and needy. A lot of men, especially when they are particularly fond of one woman will start to become her shadow. They will call her too many times, ask her if everything is all right too often, and basically want to wait on her hand and foot. This is the EASIEST way to repel a woman, not to attract her.

2. Thinking that things will work out just like the movies. In a movie, you will see the guy who is sweet and sensitive always end up with the girl. She will finally realize that he is the one that loves her the most. In real life, it’s more about who SHE is attracted to the most. You have to be able to create that spark of attraction in a woman.

3. Not making a move. It might be due to the fear of rejection, but a lot of men will NEVER make the move on the girl they want. Instead they just watch her walk on by and they do nothing at all to attract her to them. You have to be willing to make the move, IF you want to be the guy that gets the girl. Otherwise, you will just end up wishing you had.

Do not make these mistakes if you really want to attract a woman. A woman will not fall for you just because you are the one that is most qualified. She has to feel a strong sense of attraction to YOU.

Here is how you can attract women with a little bit of small talk. Attracting women and getting them to talk to you is easy if you know how to use the conversation starter. Conversation starters work well to get women attracted enough to indulge in a conversation with you. Here we will see as to how you can attract women with some good use of your tongue:

1. THE best thing which works in your favor is a nice smile, an eye contact and a direct “hi”

2. If you see a girl reading a book, say if it is the latest Harry Potter book or a John Grisham novel, you can exclaim,” wow, that is my favorite too” Get her interested about a certain character if you have read the book but do not tell her more. Also if possible talk to her about the other book from some other books. Take it from there to other topics.

3. Suppose you see a girl at a party wearing something unusual. Say something unusual which will attract her attention. Tell her that it is very attractive and it is irresistible. Make her know that it compliments her outfit perfectly. You may even ask her where she got it from. She will be pleased to tell you more about her broach.

4. Have you ever noticed the sales girls and telephone receptionists?. They are bored of doing the same dreary job. They want a man to liven them, to cheer them and make them feel special. You can do a good job at it. You can just say that you are shopping for a neat outfit for your sister. Ask her which would be an ideal according to her. She will definitely help her out, it is her job and you ofcourse can talk about other nice things in life along with the dress. Again if you see a nice cute shopping for a pair of dainty skirts, smile her and greet her. Before she knows what hit her, tell her that you have quite a dumb taste compared as far as women’s’ outfits are concerned. Tell her that you cannot figure out an ideal pair of jeans or whatever which would suit your sister or friend. She will not mind helping you choose what she thinks is a good outfit. Similarly you can perk up the telephone receptionist by talking about the traveling bit, and praising her about how she manages to keep cool even though she has to handle a lot of persky, irritating calls. Compliment on her outfit or any other feature that stands out(not the naughty part!, not yet!)

5. Ask her what the time is. This is the most clichéd opening line but still it works. But be sure that you do not flash your cellphone at that time.

6. Ask her for directions. She would definitely be happy to help you with finding the directions. Very soon she will be providing directions to her heart.

7. If you are in a music CD shop and you see a girl, ask her if she could help her with some good tracks.

8. Girls love art and forms of creation. So, if you are a museum and spot a girl looking at an art form, you can go close to her and look at the splendid creation. When she is within an earshot, utter a few words about the painting or pass an odd comment. Ask her, “What do you think?” She will be glad to offer her views. Then you can spend time disagreeing with her views as you open the door of her heart.

9. If you see a girl at a beach, ask her if she knows to build castles.

10. . You can ask a devout churchgoing girl what time the worship is or if she would be around for the feast day.

11. Your neighbor might be one real hot number. But that should not stop you from going and asking her, “do you know what time is the 70s show?”

12. Fancy your teacher whom you have major crush on. No sweat. Go to her and say that you have some doubts which want to be cleared.

13. . If you see a girl in the garden, comment on the weather, the green grass etc….say that you love the smell of the rain, doesn’t you?

14. If you ever see a girl (lonely) in a theatre, tell her about your views on the movie. Not but don’t sound boring or nerdy. A comment in a humorous form will break the ice faster. Something like tell her, you know what was my favorite part in the movie….I simply loved The End.

15. Wear a whatzit. Whenever you go to a gathering, wear or carry something unusual to give people who find you the excuse to approach. If you want to be noticed, wear something unusual. Things like a cool braclet, a cute looking pendant or a funky pair of glasses, anything that stands out stylishly but not gaudy.

16. If you see a gorgeous girl at a party, ask the host to make the introduction or pump him for few facts that you can immediately turn into ice breakers.

17. Imagine a bevy of girls and guys talking and chatting away to a glory at a pub. You want to speak to that lovely brunette who is sitting amongst the group. She has taken your breath away. You are attracted to this sexy cute woman who is nothing but a stranger. How do you do you make your move. Eavesdrop. Let’s assume they are talking about a trip. You can quip in and say that you couldn’t help overhearing what they were talking. Say that you are also planning to go to the same place. Ask them for suggestions about the place, lodge, hotel or accommodation to stay there while taking the trip. As you say this, there will be a small fraction of a silence. You have entered their territory. Will they be taken aback? Somewhat. Momentarily. Will they get over it? Will you be party to her conversation? Absolutely!

18. Break the ice…go to her with a lump of ice. Break it in front of her and say, “Now that we’ve broken the ice. Can we be friends?” Eccentric but sexy! She will remember it because it will be straight out of a cute romantic movie for her.

19. When the object of your interest is topic animatedly, compliment her and endorse her. Say: That’s right. Rephrase what she has just said in another manner. C’mon you can do that!

20. Tell her, “I am writing a book on Dating Women. What is your take on it? Any tips?”

For some guys, it seems so EASY to be able to get a girlfriend. It’s almost as if they don’t even have to try a thing and they can get a girlfriend easily. Some guys struggle with being able to attract a woman. Actually most guys feel this way. Most men wish that they were the guy that gets girls easy, but that is far from the reality of it.

How can YOU become THAT guy?

1. You have to have the right mindset first. you cannot be the kind of passive guy that just sits back and watches other guys do what you want to do. You have to say, this is it, and start changing the way that you see yourself. Then women will start to see you differently.

2. You have to learn to use your body language the RIGHT way. You have to be able to walk and move in a way that shows confidence, masculinity and sex appeal. While this may sound hard at first, it’s not once you know what to do.

3. You have to learn how to flirt with women. Most men have no clue how to flirt with a woman. Sometimes in a club, I will observe a guy trying to flirt with a woman, and it’s painful. Being able to flirt with a woman is the key to your success with women.

4. You have to be able to show YOUR value. This is where your confidence and self image come into play. Women are attracted to a man that projects value. If you are unable to do this, you will not be able to attract women easily. It will be HARD for YOU.

These four tips should give you the START that you need to get a girlfriend. Most men wish they could become the guy that attracts women with ease, but YOU WILL, if you choose to.

Look after yourself. Groom yourself, wear nice clothes, have a trendy haircut, cut your finger and toe nails. Try and look your best at every opportunity, you never know when you will run into your ideal woman.

It doesn’t matter what you look like physically unless off course you are obese and physically disfigured but even here you can make changes.

Attraction is not based on looks when it comes to men. It is based in attitude and confidence but an important factor is grooming and looking after yourself. You will get more chances to get a woman if you improve your appearance as then you will be somewhat of a matching pair.

When it comes to dating, opposites do not attract, in fact people with similar looks, ideas, goals and values tend to get together more often.

Go to the gym, working out is great for the mind and the body. If you have a hobby, enjoy it! Smell nice! Get some nice cologne, it doesn’t have to be expensive. Shop around. Wear fashionable, good shoes. Women love shoes and judge men according to what they wear.

Improve your appearance! It will make you feel good and everybody around you will see how much more appealing you will become and you will get noticed a lot more, for all the right reasons.

You are not the only guy that finds that it can be a struggle to get a girl. For many men, this is one area of their life that they just cannot seem to get straight. Being able to attract a woman is not always easy, especially when the girl is beautiful. There are many other guys that are just as into her as you are, so what can you do to separate yourself from the rest of the pack?

Here are 3 powerful tips to get a girl and attract women:

1. Talk to her in a way that creates attraction. Most men end up not knowing what to say and what to do to attract a woman. You have to be able to use conversation as a way to build attraction with a woman, if you really want to have success with women.

2. Flirt with her and make her fall for you. If you know the right way to flirt with a girl, then you will easily be able to attract her attention and get her to think about you. Most men have a hard time flirting with a girl, and because of this, they end up as just a friend or a guy she met and nothing more.

3. Learn how to escalate to touch her. When you are able to escalate from just talking and flirting to physical touch with a woman, you will be able to make her feel a POWERFUL attraction to YOU. Don’t shy away and act timid. Just make sure you don’t come across as groping her or you might get a slap in the face.

Being able to make a woman fall for you and feel attracted to you is a MUST if you want to succeed with women. Otherwise, you will be seen as nothing more than just another guy friend.